After 2,430 days, Malori gets her wish: new parents

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Malori Filippin has endured many bad days along the way, including being plucked from a filthy trailer when she was just 2 years old.

But Friday wasn’t one of those days. Malori, now 9, stood in the lobby on the 17th floor of the Daley Center wearing a red lace dress and holding a framed, hand-made poster that read: “I was in foster care for 2,430 days, but today I was adopted. November 22, 2019.”

“I’m going to go ahead and sign this,” said Cook County Judge Patrick Stanton, peering at her from the bench. “Is that what you want me to do?”

Malori, twisting a rubber bracelet between her fingers, grinned and nodded. Then the courtroom broke into applause. Malori’s was one of four adoptions finalized in Cook County on Friday — on National Adoption Day.

Malori’s grandparents, Daniel and Janet Filippin of Orland Park, both 61, are now her legal parents. And Friday, though overwhelmingly happy, was also a little bittersweet.

“This was not where we planning [to be] at 61, but we jumped at the opportunity when the court system asked,” said Janet Filippin. “We said, ‘absolutely.’ … There was no way that we would let Malori go back into foster care, into the system.”

Bittersweet, because Malori’s biological parents have no contact with a little girl who loves Barbie dolls, loves to sing. Both parents succumbed to drug addictions, meaning a baby Malori often found herself neglected and living in filth.

“We counted 18 different locations we have had to pick up Malori, everywhere between hotels, garages, street corners, cars,” Daniel Filippin said.

The low point, perhaps, was when the Filippins picked up a 2-year-old Malori at a trailer in Chicago Ridge. Daniel Filippin told Malori’s mother, his daughter-in-law, that he’d report her to child protective services if he saw his granddaughter again in such squalid surroundings. She threatened to cut off all contact.

A few months later, social workers with the Illinois Department of Children and Family Services picked up Malori in the south suburbs after police raided an apartment where Malori’s mother had been staying. Malori moved in full time with her grandparents in April 2013, but her mother fought for years to regain custody of her child.

“That’s why this took so long,” Janet Filippin said. “The court systems were giving the parents every opportunity to get together. They were trying to get the families together. We were just there as protection for Malori.”

It was an “extremely difficult” time for Malori — a stark contrast to Friday, when the little girl who is in her church and school choirs submitted to dozens of hugs from so many well-wishers.

“What a great day,” the judge said as Malori left the courtroom with her new parents.

  • Amelia Parks, 4, looks up at the judge and holds her mom’s hand as her adoption becomes finalized at the Circuit Court of Cook County on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Amelia Parks, 4, looks up at the judge and holds her mom’s hand as her adoption becomes finalized at the Circuit Court of Cook County on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Ashlee Rezin Garcia/Sun-Times
  • Flanked by family members, supporters and her new parents, Malori Filippin, 9, looks up at the judge while her adoption is finalized at the Circuit Court of Cook County on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Flanked by family members, supporters and her new parents, Malori Filippin, 9, looks up at the judge while her adoption is finalized at the Circuit Court of Cook County on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Ashlee Rezin Garcia/Sun-Times
  • Da’Mon Wardlow plays with his 5-year-old son Gabriel Wardlow while taking a break from watching other families’ adoptions become finalized at the Circuit Court of Cook County on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Gabriel’s adoption was finalized in August. Da’Mon Wardlow plays with his 5-year-old son Gabriel Wardlow while taking a break from watching other families’ adoptions become finalized at the Circuit Court of Cook County on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Gabriel’s adoption was finalized in August. Ashlee Rezin Garcia/Sun-Times
  • Malori Filippin, 9, plays with her sister, Michelle Mulhall, after Malori’s adoption was finalized at the Circuit Court of Cook County on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Malori Filippin, 9, plays with her sister, Michelle Mulhall, after Malori’s adoption was finalized at the Circuit Court of Cook County on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Ashlee Rezin Garcia/Sun-Times
  • Pauline Barlow talks to her 5-year-old daughter, Rhiannon Barlow, at the Circuit Court of Cook County, where they watched the girl’s biological sister get adopted by a different family on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Barlow’s adoption was finalized in April. Pauline Barlow talks to her 5-year-old daughter, Rhiannon Barlow, at the Circuit Court of Cook County, where they watched the girl’s biological sister get adopted by a different family on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Barlow’s adoption was finalized in April. Ashlee Rezin Garcia/Sun-Times
  • Malori Filippin, 9, hugs her parents, Daniel and Janet Filippin, while posing for a photo after her adoption was finalized at the Circuit Court of Cook County on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Malori Filippin, 9, hugs her parents, Daniel and Janet Filippin, while posing for a photo after her adoption was finalized at the Circuit Court of Cook County on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Ashlee Rezin Garcia/Sun-Times
  • Da’Mon Wardlow sits with his 5-year-old son Gabriel Wardlow and watches other families’ adoptions become finalized at the Circuit Court of Cook County on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Gabriel’s adoption was finalized in August. Da’Mon Wardlow sits with his 5-year-old son Gabriel Wardlow and watches other families’ adoptions become finalized at the Circuit Court of Cook County on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Gabriel’s adoption was finalized in August. Ashlee Rezin Garcia/Sun-Times
  • Shanequa Parks looks at her 4-year-old daughter Amelia Parks as they wait for their adoption to become finalized at the Circuit Court of Cook County on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Shanequa Parks looks at her 4-year-old daughter Amelia Parks as they wait for their adoption to become finalized at the Circuit Court of Cook County on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Ashlee Rezin Garcia/Sun-Times
  • Flanked by family members, supporters and her new parents, Malori Filippin, 9, looks up at the judge while her adoption is finalized at the Circuit Court of Cook County on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Flanked by family members, supporters and her new parents, Malori Filippin, 9, looks up at the judge while her adoption is finalized at the Circuit Court of Cook County on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Ashlee Rezin Garcia/Sun-Times
  • Malori Filippin, 9, holds hands with her 5-year-old biological sister, Rhiannon Barlow, while posing for a photo after Malori’s adoption was finalized at the Circuit Court of Cook County on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Barlow’s adoption to a different family was finalized in April. Malori Filippin, 9, holds hands with her 5-year-old biological sister, Rhiannon Barlow, while posing for a photo after Malori’s adoption was finalized at the Circuit Court of Cook County on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Barlow’s adoption to a different family was finalized in April. Ashlee Rezin Garcia/Sun-Times
  • Da’Mon Wardlow adjusts the “Adoption Celebration” bracelet on his adopted son’s wrist on National Adoption Day at the Circuit Court of Cook County, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Da’Mon Wardlow adjusts the “Adoption Celebration” bracelet on his adopted son’s wrist on National Adoption Day at the Circuit Court of Cook County, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Ashlee Rezin Garcia/Sun-Times
  • Malori Filippin, 9, plays with her 5-year-old biological sister, Rhiannon Barlow, after Malori’s adoption was finalized at the Circuit Court of Cook County on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Barlow’s adoption to a different family was finalized in April. Malori Filippin, 9, plays with her 5-year-old biological sister, Rhiannon Barlow, after Malori’s adoption was finalized at the Circuit Court of Cook County on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Barlow’s adoption to a different family was finalized in April. Ashlee Rezin Garcia/Sun-Times
  • Flanked by family members, supporters and her new parents, Malori Filippin, 9, looks up at the judge while her adoption is finalized at the Circuit Court of Cook County on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Flanked by family members, supporters and her new parents, Malori Filippin, 9, looks up at the judge while her adoption is finalized at the Circuit Court of Cook County on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Ashlee Rezin Garcia/Sun-Times
  • Janet Filippin hugs her daughter, 9-year-old Malori Filippin, while talking to a reporter after Malori’s adoption was finalized at the Circuit Court of Cook County on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Janet Filippin hugs her daughter, 9-year-old Malori Filippin, while talking to a reporter after Malori’s adoption was finalized at the Circuit Court of Cook County on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Ashlee Rezin Garcia/Sun-Times
  • Malori Filippin, 9, hugs her parents, Daniel and Janet Filippin, while posing for a photo after her adoption was finalized at the Circuit Court of Cook County on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Malori Filippin, 9, hugs her parents, Daniel and Janet Filippin, while posing for a photo after her adoption was finalized at the Circuit Court of Cook County on National Adoption Day, Friday morning, Nov. 22, 2019. Ashlee Rezin Garcia/Sun-Times

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